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Friday, March 18, 2011

My Life in Pictures: Museum Field Trip

Today, my speech intern and I were brave and decided to help out by chaperoning a group of 3rd to 5th grade boys with autism for a museum field trip.  It was an excellent day, with so much engagement and initiation of communication and shared wonder and smiles and laughs.  I wish I could take a day to spend with every child on my caseload this way.  It was such a wonderful chance to see the sparkle in the boys' eyes as they shared joint attention about a lemur, a bear, a butterfly, or (everyone's favorite) a computerized camera to see the animals more closely.

At one point, one of my students who isn't normally all that talkative unless we ask him to speak, sat down next to my speech intern on the bench at the butterfly house and said, "Wonderful," as he looked at all the butterflies flying overhead.  It was magical, that moment, and I let myself pause to appreciate it just for a second.

And then, of course, I had to scramble to keep up with a fast-moving third grader.

But there were many more beautiful little moments of shared awe today. Hooray for field trips.

Wonderful, indeed.


a bear off in the distance

a ring tailed lemur--so cute!


What wonderful thing did you experience today?  Did you let yourself "be in the moment" to take it all in?

Curious and Exotic Plants


 Check out this amazing flowering pink popcorn shrub in our neighbor's yard.  I haven't been lucky enough to run into my neighbors lately, but I'm dying to know what it's called.  My best guess is that it's a variegated weigela, but that's just based on a little googling I did.  If anyone knows what this might be, please leave a comment with a guess!



Flanna's new favorite pose for photos.  Cracks. Me. Up. 


Also, today, I went to the Museum of Life and Science for a field trip with our cohort of kiddos with autism, and during the tour of the butterfly house, I came upon this really cool vine.  The flowers are so  distinctive, light green and banana-shaped.  Gorgeous.









What's your favorite strange plant?  I just love cleomes.  They're so quirky.

Experience Nature

I am so excited that spring is here.  I just love the transition from one season to the next.  The comfort of warmth after a long cold.  The freedom to be outside after months of feeling sequestered.   The fun of all the blooms and newness.

Last weekend, Flannery and I transplanted some of our seedlings into pots outside.  We had shovels, but Flannery decided to use her hands because, as she says, "I love to get muddy."  So far, only a few of our seedlings have been stolen by squirrels (or flexible rabbits?) :).  And we're hoping to get our herbs and tomatoes transplanted soon.

Being in nature is so restorative to me.  There's a calm that I don't think can just be attributed to a relaxing day off.  That's why I've made "Experience Nature" one of my happiness commandments.  When I follow it, it really does boost my happiness.



And now, for a weekend of muddy hands once again.



How are you going to experience nature on this "spring commencing" weekend?

Thursday, March 17, 2011

A Picnic

 We had a picnic with some wonderful friends on Saturday.  The girls climbed trees and made mud stew while the adults sat in the sun and chatted.  (OK, the moms sat in the sun and chatted.  The dads played with the kiddos quite a bit!)  It was a gorgeous day, and a real treat to get to enjoy some outside time as spring approaches.

My hubby is just the sweetest and best dad around.  It brought tears to my eyes watching him play soccer with Flanna.  Such a gentle and kind soul--she just adores him.  Plus, isn't he cute?






Remember to wear green on Thursday!!

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Speechy Sunday: Black History Projects and Graphic Organizers Galore!

On Friday, our school wrapped up our school-wide unit on Black History.  As I walked through the hallways and classrooms to see what each grade level and each class had been working on, I was so pleased to see an overwhelming use of graphic organizers in our students' final projects.  I love graphic organizers and swear by them as visual ways to help us learn more, store more, and more easily retrieve more information later, as well.

Anyway, I thought you'd get a kick out of seeing some of the ways different grade levels used graphic organizers.

There were timelines.





There were cluster organizers.





There were pie charts.






There were causal flow charts.



I think that the students at my school really learned an amazing amount about the Civil Rights Movement, slavery, and black history in the past 6 weeks.   And I bet they'll remember these projects and the information they organized for themselves in such lovely visual ways, for years to come.



What school project from your childhood do you still remember?

 

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Starting Seedlings

A few weeks ago, my daughter and I planted some seeds with 3 seedling starter kits.  Our seeds sprouted pretty quickly, and now our leafy green seedlings and soybean seedlings are almost ready to transplant.   Our basil is getting there, as well.  It's exciting!

Where are you seeing growth in your life these days?




Thursday, March 10, 2011

Crafty Ideas: Make Your Own Wrapping Paper

Or, in this case, have your daughter make wrapping paper for you.

I love using Flannery's paintings as wrapping paper.  As long as she agrees, mind you.  I remember one time, I didn't ask her beforehand, just assumed she'd like it that I wrapped one of her great grandmothers' gifts in something she made, and poor thing, she got really upset because she had wanted to keep that particular painting.  So we had to carefully unwrap the gift and use a good old gift bag.  Luckily, for this gift, Flannery was happy for a "baby" to receive her painting.

This gift was for a baby shower for coworker of mine (that's my little speech room in the background).  I even made the bow from paper scraps.  Recycling can be so pretty!







What have you recycled or re-used lately?

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

A School Garden: Before

My coworker, Mary, and I applied for a grant to start a school garden at our elementary school.  And guess what?  We got it!  Out of 14 applications, ours was chosen to be funded!  We're very excited!

I took some "before" photos of the area where we're going to start the garden.  Years ago, this was a "victory garden," but it's been neglected for quite a while.  It used to have a pond in the middle, but we're going to fill in the pond and plant flowers in that bed.  The two raised beds are going to be for herbs and veggies.


I work with the intermediate autism classroom at my school, and we're really looking forward to having some language lessons planned around gardening experiences together before the school year is out.  Stay tuned for the "after" photos as spring approaches and we get the garden in shape!






Have you started planting your spring garden yet?  What are you planting this season?

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

A Mardi Gras Parade: You know, for kids!



This evening, Flannery's class, clad in their brightest silliest costumes, paraded from their school down the block to a cute little area called Brightleaf for a Mardi Gras parade.  The kids shouted, "Happy Mardi Gras!" to everyone along the way.  They had a great time being in their little parade, and it was fun for us to see them all together in a long (and rather unwieldy!) line being so proud of themselves.  I only had my iPhone with me, so forgive my blurry pictures, but I still thought they were cute!







What celebrations do you remember best from when you were a kid in school?

Monday, March 7, 2011

You've Got Questions, I've Got Answers

Distant relatives on my mom's side, also
sapped of energy.  And none too happy about it.  
Mondays are never my most creative days.  But, seriously?  This monday?  Has drained me of all creativity.

It's my own fault, really.   You see, I stayed up insanely late last night filling out online job applications.  For very exciting jobs that I'm crossing my fingers I'll hear back from!  But, still, not my smartest move.

Then, I decided to see a private client on my way home from school today, on an evening when I already have a two hour Spanish class at Duke.  The day after I stayed up insanely late, mind you.

At least my hubby had crock pot carnitas ready when I got home.  (Yum!) And we took a sweet break from the hustle and bustle to take a walk together to pick up Flanna from her preschool.  Which was rejuvenating.

But back to my original point.  You know, about Mondays, and how I've been sapped of all creativity.

Um, I've been sapped of all creativity.

Soooo, today I'm putting the ball in your court.  Ask me anything.  Inspire me with your curiosity.  Stump me with your brilliance.

Just don't ask to see a photo of me from my middle school "perm + braces + knobby knees" era.  Cause that would definitely not be inspiring.




What are you curious about?  Ask me whatever;  I'll do my best to answer. 

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Speechy Sunday: 10 Ways to Motivate the Unmotivated Student

My oh-so-clever cooperation chart.  Students earn
a prize when they reach the star. 

“Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.” -- unknown



As a speech language pathologist for grades 3-5 in an elementary school setting, one of the challenges I regularly face is trying to make good progress with students who are unmotivated.  You know, students who don't want to be in speech, don't want my help, and generally don't want to try anything I want them to try.   Students who cross their arms and try to avoid making eye contact with me out of fear that I’ll try to get them to--(gasp!)--actually DO some sort of speech work.   

I admit it, sometimes I'm tempted to just give up, dismiss them, and say, "Well, when they WANT to make progress, they can come back to speech."  But, really, it’s my job to motivate even my most unmotivated students. 

So, what's an SLP to do?

Here are some strategies I've found useful:

1.  Use visual behavior tracking charts.  – That’s right, reward charts aren’t just for preschoolers anymore.  I have a large grid that I use as a basic chart (see photo) to help motivate students to participate, and I modify it for every student on my caseload.  Some students earn one square per session, others earn 3 or 5 squares per session, depending on how much reinforcement they need on a given day for a given task. Once they reach a star, they earn a prize/special activity.  Of course, a chart alone won’t do the trick unless the student wants the reward he’s working toward, which leads me to my next point.

2.  Allow students to earn a "work free" speech session.  – What does the unmotivated student want most?  To be left alone!  I have two students who will work diligently for weeks or even months just for a chance to take most of a speech session "off" from speech work and just "play" on a computer or iPad during speech.  (What they don't realize is that many of their goals are addressed by the computer games!)

3.  Challenge students to beat their own "record" for a certain task. -  Let’s face it; drill work is awful.  It’s hard to motivate even enthusiastic students to complete drills cheerfully. However, if we make the drill task timed and the student tries to beat his last score, drill work can actually become fun!  For example, I'll set my timer for a minute and see how many perfect "r" words from a set of 70 flashcards the student can produce, and then I'll let them try again (several times) to see if they can beat their best "record."   (I got this speed challenge idea from the "Superspeed" Whole Brain Teaching game, and just modify it based on my students' goals.)  Students actually beg to stay after their regular speech time to try to keep beating their records.

4.  Allow the student to be the expert by teaching a skill to younger students.   -  If a fourth grade student is a poor reader but can read simple picture books, he could perhaps read a book to a kindergarten class every once in a while, preparing for the reading by doing word study and learning tasks with vocabulary from the book he will be sharing.  This is a much more naturally motivating experience than reading for boring old Mrs. Ragan who already knows what the book says. 

5.  Make tasks more hands-on.  -  One of my third grade students recently said to me, "I like working with you, because we do stuff, and make stuff, and build stuff."  This was a student who for the first two weeks of speech refused to do any work at all with me when I was using traditional table-work activities (even when I bribed her with silly bands, her favorite!).  Good thing I wised up!

6.  Make tasks more physical. - Some of my most difficult to motivate students have been won over by a few sessions of playing physical games such as "Simon Says," "Mother May I," "Hot/Cold," "Lego Creator," "Charades," or "Pictionary."  These games can be modified to address social skills (joint attention, turn taking, flexibility, taking others' perspective), articulation (generalizing targets to sentences and conversation), receptive/expressive language (giving and receiving directions, vocabulary building, answering questions), reading (following written directions, recognizing sight words, reading CVC words, etc.), writing (summarizing, using transitional phrases, using descriptive vocabulary, etc.), and more.  I think that much of the success of this strategy comes from pairing myself with fun activities, because, after a while of doing physical speech activities, many students don't need as much reinforcement for cooperating and engaging with me--they actually begin to be reinforced just by engaging with me!  And then, boy, we can make some progress.  

7.  Catch the student cooperating. - Then praise, praise, praise! (Be sure your praise is specific about what you liked --ex:  "Great job using “although” in a sentence!")  I find that praising students in front of their peers, or especially praising them quietly by "whispering" to a teacher just loudly enough that they overhear me, can really shift a student's demeanor out of an unmotivated funk.   (I mean, if I overheard a colleague whisper to my boss how great I was, it would knock me out of a funk, too!)

8.  Treat a few students to a special lunch "party" with you as a reward/motivator. – Our time is limited as school SLPs.  But we typically do have a lunch break, and every now and then, it can be fun to spend it celebrating with students.  For my fifth graders, special lunches have been a highly motivating reward.  I've had students who have worked for two months (earning tokens toward their lunch party by following teacher instructions, being on task, participating in class and speech, and writing during independent writing times) to earn a special lunch with me (with pizza delivered, or McDonalds brought in, or something fun like that).  You might even be able to request PTA funds to help cover costs.

9.  Be lighthearted and make mistakes yourself during therapy sessions. - If students know that you are fun to be around, lighthearted, even silly sometimes, they are often less worried about their performance on learning tasks in your presence.  And when you, the brilliant adult, make mistakes sometimes, the stress involved in trying a new task is lessened in your presence.  

10.  If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.  - Some students are going to have an extinction burst before they begin cooperating.  You may put a motivation plan in place, and find that they are even more defiant and uncooperative than ever, that they won’t work even for a huge reward.  But persist.  Give it two weeks.  Then, if it's still not working, you can chat with the student's learning team and try to modify your plan.  

So, the next time you're in a battle of wills with an unmotivated student, and your only hope of rescue seems to be in the possibility that they might be moving out of state, take a minute to think outside the box, and see if you and the rest of the child's learning team can come up with some ingenious ways to motivate the student.  Then, come back and leave a comment to let me know how it went! 



What have you discovered that motivates your most unmotivated students?  I'd love to hear!

Friday, March 4, 2011

A Discovery about Commenting & "Subscribe by Email"

I've just discovered something!

I've been trying to figure out how you guys can be alerted when I comment back to your comments (which I pretty much always do because I'm OCD sometimes), and I finally figured it out.  Turns out, it's not rocket science---I am just really bad at technology stuff.  :)

When you leave a little comment about a post, (which I SOOOO appreciate when you do!), you can now just click on the phrase "subscribe by email" to the right at the bottom of the comment you're leaving, and you'll automatically get my reply comment e-mailed to you when I comment back.  Isn't that cool?

Hope you'll be inspired to comment more now!  I love it when you do!


(Plus, we could use this post as a test case to be sure it works, so someone leave a comment and click "subscribe by email" and see if it works when I comment back.---Any takers?)  

Forgive and Forgive and Forgive



I heard this song on the radio a few days ago, and have just not been able to get it off my mind.  It's about forgiveness, and how we're called to forgive folks seven times seventy times.  We're supposed to forgive and forgive and forgive.

Sometimes forgiveness is easy.  A person says they're sorry.  You say, "I forgive you."  You move on.

Other times, not so much.  

For instance, maybe the person never says they're sorry.  They don't even admit they've done anything wrong.  Maybe they don't realize your perspective could be so different from their own, that you could be hurt by something they've thoughtlessly done or unintentionally done.  In these cases, mercy is tough. Forgiveness is hard.  And seven times seventy times?  That's quite a tall order.

I think especially of those friends and family members who have been wronged and never received an apology, who never had a hand extended to begin the mending of a relationship.  It would be almost impossible to forgive some of these offenses.  A brother who ran away and never spoke to the family again.  Parents who continually belittled and berated.  A husband who let addiction erode his loyalty to his family.  A stranger on drugs who crashed into an innocent family's car.  A father who lied and cheated and crumbled the trust his daughters will ever have in men.  A sister who harvested disaster and repeatedly left siblings to pick up the pieces.   A father who never paid child support.  Spouses who detached from marriages without ever giving it their all.  Children who endlessly took advantage of their parents' generosity.  I would not judge the victims of these offenses one bit if they never forgave the perpetrators, ever.

But one of the many mysteries of our nature is, that forgiveness is beautiful, and brings healing most to the one doing the forgiving.

So forgive and forgive and forgive.

And reap the many blessings that come from moving on.



What do you think about the idea of forgiving someone over and over and over?  Do you think it sets you up for being taken advantage of?


P.S.  If you're in a quiet place and don't want to play the video above, here are the lyrics for the chorus:

"7 times 70 times
I’ll do what it takes to make it right
I thought the pain was here to stay
But forgiveness made a way
7 times 70 times
There’s healing in the air tonight
I’m reaching up to pull it down
Gonna wrap it all around"





P.P.S. I'd like to think that I've never hurt anyone and not realized it. But I know that's likely impossible. For that reason, I really love the words of this prayer: "Forgive my transgressions, voluntary and involuntary, in word and deed, known and unknown."  


Thursday, March 3, 2011

Pamper Yourself

I'm feeling kind of sick.  With a sore throat and a headache.

I'm tired, because my sick daughter has kept me up late and gotten up crazy early for the past few days.

I'm trying to set up some interviews down in GA.  I'm sending out resumes to all the really cool places I'd love to work in the ATL.  I'm searching job sites after dinner until bedtime each day.  It's not great fun.

I'm behind on laundry (Have I mentioned laundry is my nemesis?).

I did cook and do the dishes tonight, so that's a plus.

I had about 300 e-mails and phone messages from recruiters today because a few days ago, I thought it might be neat to see what options there are in travel therapy jobs. (BTW,  If I ever get this curious inkling again, tear the laptop from my hands and make me go to bed instead.)

So, all that is to say that I'm feeling a little. bit.  o. ver. whelmed.

So, tonight, I did what I always do when I'm overwhelmed.  (Just ask my college roommate.  You should've seen the artistic projects I took on during finals weeks.)  I took a break from reality, pampered myself, and finished a good book.  Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, to be exact.

And now, I feel much better.   Or at least not super stressed.  The messages and e-mails (oh, and laundry, too!) will still be there tomorrow, and maybe I'll be in a better place to dive into the things that must be done.



How do you deal with life when you're overwhelmed?

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Cool Stuff You Should Really Read

Waiting for sproutlets. 
We planted some seeds last weekend, and now they're beginning to sprout!  It's very exciting!  I can't wait for spring and the chance to have a little planter garden.  In this photo, it looks like I'm growing a Cabbage Patch Flanna!

There are so many neat things I've read recently that I decided to do a reading list post today.  Check out these interesting tidbits:
1.  Gretchen Rubin's tips for being happier during hard times - I'm always interested in how folks try to get happy or at least happiER amidst a struggle.
2.  A List of Goals Parents of Kiddos with Autism Should Conquer First at Autism Games  - I so enjoy this blog and am inspired by it every time I visit.
3.  Proof that my BFF is super smart and knew Colin Firth was Oscar-worthy way back when  - I finally saw the King's Speech, and have to say it was amazing.
4.  Trailers for the Brain Injury Dialogues - a documentary airing on PBS now that looks SO good!
5.  How to give up a sensible job and work the job that inspires you by Trent at the Simple Dollar  - The Simple Dollar is one of my favorite personal finance blogs, and keeps me focused on my financial goals.  Plus, I can always use encouragement to be thriftier and more purposeful in limiting my consumption.



What have you read lately that inspires you?  And have you seen the King's Speech yet?

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Toes in the River

We went hiking on Sunday, and the weather was actually warm enough to put our toes in the river!  It was a perfect day for hiking.   The kids were whiny that day, though, and now I guess I see why.  Flanna came down with a fever yesterday, poor thing.  So we're home resting while I try to think of inventive things she might actually take a bite/sip of while she's in her sick nonhungry mode.  Fun stuff.








Saturday, February 26, 2011

Funny Flanna Quotes

Flanna:  Ouch!  I stubbed my thumb toe.
Me:  Actually, that's just called your "big" toe, not your "thumb" toe.
Flanna:  Well, I call it my thumb toe.

Driving in the car:  "What's a boy princess called again?"

Watching soccer with her dad, a Proactiv commercial came on.  I walked into the room, and Flanna said, "Did you know if you buy that stuff, it'll make red dots on your face go away?"  (Even 4 year olds aren't immune to TV marketing!)

Washing off paint from her hands:  "Sometimes, I color brown marker on my skin, and pretend I grew a new freckle."


Whose sense of humor do you enjoy regularly?  I'm lucky to get to live with two hilarious folks.  They really help me lighten up.  



On an unrelated but delicious note:  My gluten-free vegan friends preparing for Lent will be thrilled to try out this recipe I just rediscovered today, for Yummy vegan blueberry crunch cake (no wheat, no dairy, no soy, no egg, can you believe it?).

Painting Wooden Birds

I recently went a little overboard during a trip to Michael's.  I'm not usually a huge shopper, but craft supplies are my weakness.  A few weekends ago, I walked into a Michael's looking for pipe cleaners and beads, and I came out with these adorable carved birds that I just fell in love with.                                                      Flanna and I finally got around to painting them, and now they're sitting in my kitchen windowsill--one red, one blue, and one rainbow bird.  They really brighten my day.  Now I just need to seal them so they don't fade and then suspend them from the ceiling on some fishing line so they don't look like clutter, and instead look like they belong in my kitchen window.  



What small item in your home brings you a bit of joy every time you see it?