Thursday, February 4, 2010
Words Have Power
As I was driving the icy roads between the thousands of speech sessions and IEP meetings I juggled today, with a crazy long mental to-do list that was in serious need of being written down, and therefore, with a pretty huge degree of worry that I'd forget something important, I realized something.
My stressed out moments weren't making me as insane as normal.
And I think I figured out why.
Instead of my normal thoughts like, "I'll never get all this done." or "How in the world can I meet all these deadlines?", my brain was saying little phrases from my happiness project, like,
"Do what needs to be done."
"Do your best and be done with it."
"Do it now."
"All you can do is what you can do."
Now, I'm trying not to get too "Dr. Phil" on you, but the power of these little phrases really struck me. They're actually changing my response to stress somehow. This is kind of groundbreaking for me.
So now I'm off to battle a mountain of paperwork. But somehow, thinking of it as "Doing what needs to be done" makes it a little more noble and a little more manageable.
What phrases keep you motivated when you're overwhelmed?